When parents get older, it can be difficult for their now-adult children to speak to them about matters of safety, matters that up until a certain point had been their sole jurisdiction.
But when it comes to whether an elderly parent is fit enough to continue to drive, it is a conversation that must take place, despite reservations.
Consider Whether Your Parent is Able to Drive Safely Before you talk to your mother or father, you should consider the facts specific to your parent's situation.
For example, think about: • Your parent's physical condition: reaction time, eyesight, hearing, and cognitive functioning.
• What prescriptions your parents are on, and whether these medications are approved for use while operating a motor vehicle.
• Whether your parent has gotten lost more often than usual.
• Whether either of your folks have been more clumsy than usual.
Start the Conversation Once you have come to the conclusion that your parent is no longer able to drive safely, it is time to have the conversation with your parent.
Remember to be respectful of the big changes that the lack of driving will mean for your parent and to recognize that this may be a difficult change both practically and emotionally.
How you approach the conversation depends a lot on whether you believe that your parent is receptive to hearing your concerns.
Some families find it useful to have the conversation with the parent's doctor or trusted clergy member present, while other families find it more comfortable to have the conversation in private.
Come Up With Solutions to Transportation Problems It isn't enough to explain to your parent that he or she is at increased risk of causing a serious car accident.
It is essential that you develop answers to your folk's transportation dilemma that will allow them to preserve a measure of their independence and sense of self-sufficiency.
Public transportation, community buses specifically for the aged, family members, and even taxis may be part of the solution.
We understand that this discussion could be challenging to have, but we also know how important it is that you do.
Each year, people are hurt and killed in car accidents because of older drivers.
If you have been hurt or a loved one has been killed in a Georgia car accident, then you may be entitled to damages.
Please speak with an Atlanta accident attorney to find out if this is in fact the case.