Getting Your Ex Back If it Wasn"t Your Fault
It is a fact that there are no guarantees in life, this applies to every facet of life and includes relationships as well.
You will be happy one day and come home to an empty house in the evening, having no clue what was wrong.
It is these instances that cause those who experience breakups the most pain, being dumped for no know reason whatsoever.
If the above is you, you may be having mixed feelings right now.
You may be thinking that you want to get your ex back but at the same time you don't want to make the first move because you know you didn't do anything wrong.
The truth is that even though you may not have done anything wrong, it doesn't mean that all you were doing was 100% right for your partner.
In the beginning of relationships it is always easier to live with things that you would rather not live with and this is a mistake that many people make, thinking that they will get used to it and get over it in the future and everything will be just fine.
This seldom works and may just be the reason you are in this predicament right now.
You will see from this paragraph that the problem may just have been a miscommunication or a lack of communication.
Confront your ex, don't argue or try to start a fight...
you may want to send a text or email first.
Just let them know that you just want to talk and however they want to do it is how you will, so if they want you to call, email, text, Skype, IM it doesn't matter just avail yourself.
If this offer is rejected then wait a while and try again.
You can also tell them that you don't want to patch things up you just want to know what went wrong so that you can be able to move on.
They may prefer this idea as they won't think that you have anything up your sleeve.
If you have made contact and have gotten a favorable response then you should still remain neutral.
Don't push to hard, remember that this may take a long time to get where you want it to be depending on how the other person feels so you have to expect some length of waiting time.
During this period try to just be friends, a telephone call here and there but no trying to set dates or anything.
You may be saying this is risky and that the other party may just be out making dates with other people if you don't act fast.
The truth is that if the other person is in fact making dates with others then that could be a good thing in the sense that they will see that there really isn't much out there and they may just end up missing what they had.
Whenever the other person starts initiating contact then you can make your move and get your ex back!
You will be happy one day and come home to an empty house in the evening, having no clue what was wrong.
It is these instances that cause those who experience breakups the most pain, being dumped for no know reason whatsoever.
If the above is you, you may be having mixed feelings right now.
You may be thinking that you want to get your ex back but at the same time you don't want to make the first move because you know you didn't do anything wrong.
The truth is that even though you may not have done anything wrong, it doesn't mean that all you were doing was 100% right for your partner.
In the beginning of relationships it is always easier to live with things that you would rather not live with and this is a mistake that many people make, thinking that they will get used to it and get over it in the future and everything will be just fine.
This seldom works and may just be the reason you are in this predicament right now.
You will see from this paragraph that the problem may just have been a miscommunication or a lack of communication.
Confront your ex, don't argue or try to start a fight...
you may want to send a text or email first.
Just let them know that you just want to talk and however they want to do it is how you will, so if they want you to call, email, text, Skype, IM it doesn't matter just avail yourself.
If this offer is rejected then wait a while and try again.
You can also tell them that you don't want to patch things up you just want to know what went wrong so that you can be able to move on.
They may prefer this idea as they won't think that you have anything up your sleeve.
If you have made contact and have gotten a favorable response then you should still remain neutral.
Don't push to hard, remember that this may take a long time to get where you want it to be depending on how the other person feels so you have to expect some length of waiting time.
During this period try to just be friends, a telephone call here and there but no trying to set dates or anything.
You may be saying this is risky and that the other party may just be out making dates with other people if you don't act fast.
The truth is that if the other person is in fact making dates with others then that could be a good thing in the sense that they will see that there really isn't much out there and they may just end up missing what they had.
Whenever the other person starts initiating contact then you can make your move and get your ex back!
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