When you are asking about "tips for husband and wife relations" it can, of course, have more than one meaning. You may be asking a general question about your relationship or it may involve sex. It does not really matter though, as it is a problem that has to be handled, and soon.

How do a husband and wife improve their marriage?

There is no doubt than in marriage, as in any relationship, communication is very important. You have to speak to each other and make sure you are on the same wave length! So many problems occur because of bad communication. Your wife or your husband cannot understand you if you do not communicate.

Now by communicating I do not mean "nagging!" That is something else again that can really drive a wedge between the two of you. Make sure you communicate your feelings in a clear manner at an appropriate time. You have to make sure you have his or her attention otherwise it is only going to end up as nagging.

There is no way a husband or a wife can meat their partners expectations if there is no clear communication. It is simply not possible. You have to be aware what is going on in each other's lives and you have to know what you need from each other.

Now it does not matter if it is only a relationship problem or if it is a sex problem. You have to sort both out with good communication.

If the problem is sex, there are of course a whole lot of other things you will have t o do as well, but it all starts with communications. You have to let the other know how you feel and you have to really listen when he or she tells you how he or she feels. You cannot meet each other's needs if you do not know what they are.

Once there is good communication, you can take specific steps to improve your sex life. You can go out on "dates." Get a baby sitter and give each other your undivided attention for one evening. There is nothing that can make the spark die as much as constant interruptions when you are trying to share with each other.

Remember, sex does not start in the bedroom; it starts at the breakfast table. Make time for each other during the day; phone each other simply to say you love each other. The husband can make a habit of bringing his wife flowers on a regular basis and she can find some other way to show him he is special.

Now here you have to be cautious! If you only bring your wife flowers when you feel like sex, it will have the opposite effect. She will only think, oh, here we go again! Bring it simply to show her you lave her and she must do the same.

Once the communication is open, many of the problems will be cleared up. So if I have to choose one tip of all the tips for husband and wife relations, whether it be sex or simply the relationship, it is communication.