Kick Start The Passion in Your Relationship With These Four Easy Tips
Relationships don't come easy; they take a lot of hard work and need constant maintenance or they will quickly suffer.
If your relationship has hit a bit of a slump and you need to add some spark back into the bedroom try these five tips for a little more oomph and satisfaction: #1 Go to the gym together: exercise releases endorphins, (those are the feel good chemicals in your brain) testosterone (this boosts libido in men and women) and pheromones in sweat (chemicals which attract two people to each other).
With this intense cocktail of sexy chemicals why would you not want to go to the gym? Getting fit will improve your confidence, your body tone, your stamina and make you feel good.
Add all this together and you have an increased sex drive in combination with your new body shape: you won't be able to keep your hands off each other! #2 Play games: I don't mean mental torture games here, more in the line of old fashioned board games; fun games.
Crack out the scrabble board, snap or connect four: anything that you can play with two people.
Take some time out for just the two of you and spice the rules up a little; try swapping sexual favours for points or forfeits for the loser.
Having a game with structure and rules can make it a lot easier to ask for something you would like: eg.
spanking, a strip tease or oral sex.
It also makes it easier for each of you to take it in turn and enjoy whatever they have asked for instead of putting too much focus on one person.
Adult shops do sell adult board games, dice, cards and sexy vouchers but you can have just as much fun with any traditional game.
#3 Try something new: cut some paper into little squares big enough to write a sentence on, take a jar and then both of you write at least ten things you would like to try; put the paper in the jar and take it in turns to select one.
Anything from dressing up as your favourite fantasy, trying a little kinky light bondage or driving home naked! This is one of the easiest ways to communicate with your partner about what you would like to try and can open up a whole new area of shared experience for you both.
It's so easy to slip into a dull routine and familiarity kills passion quicker than a towel slap.
The golden rule to remember is you must both be prepared to try anything once (within reason)! #4 Book an illicit appointment: Your life takes over: kids, housework, homework, shopping etc etc how busy are you? And at night you probably slump into bed exhausted trying to recover for the next day.
It's no wonder your sex life suffers when you have no time for yourself or each other.
Make a commitment to schedule in an agreed appointment that neither of you is allowed to cancel unless it's a life or death emergency.
Make arrangements for the kids and then focus on each other.
Make it easier by getting a take-out for the night so you have more time and lock yourselves away in the bedroom having fun.
If you want to be daring arrange to turn up at your partners office for some out of hours activity.
Get dressed up in a sexy pencil-skirt suit, high-heels and no knickers; imagine the anticipation of knowing your partner was coming to have their way with you! Just remember to lock the door and check for security cameras!
If your relationship has hit a bit of a slump and you need to add some spark back into the bedroom try these five tips for a little more oomph and satisfaction: #1 Go to the gym together: exercise releases endorphins, (those are the feel good chemicals in your brain) testosterone (this boosts libido in men and women) and pheromones in sweat (chemicals which attract two people to each other).
With this intense cocktail of sexy chemicals why would you not want to go to the gym? Getting fit will improve your confidence, your body tone, your stamina and make you feel good.
Add all this together and you have an increased sex drive in combination with your new body shape: you won't be able to keep your hands off each other! #2 Play games: I don't mean mental torture games here, more in the line of old fashioned board games; fun games.
Crack out the scrabble board, snap or connect four: anything that you can play with two people.
Take some time out for just the two of you and spice the rules up a little; try swapping sexual favours for points or forfeits for the loser.
Having a game with structure and rules can make it a lot easier to ask for something you would like: eg.
spanking, a strip tease or oral sex.
It also makes it easier for each of you to take it in turn and enjoy whatever they have asked for instead of putting too much focus on one person.
Adult shops do sell adult board games, dice, cards and sexy vouchers but you can have just as much fun with any traditional game.
#3 Try something new: cut some paper into little squares big enough to write a sentence on, take a jar and then both of you write at least ten things you would like to try; put the paper in the jar and take it in turns to select one.
Anything from dressing up as your favourite fantasy, trying a little kinky light bondage or driving home naked! This is one of the easiest ways to communicate with your partner about what you would like to try and can open up a whole new area of shared experience for you both.
It's so easy to slip into a dull routine and familiarity kills passion quicker than a towel slap.
The golden rule to remember is you must both be prepared to try anything once (within reason)! #4 Book an illicit appointment: Your life takes over: kids, housework, homework, shopping etc etc how busy are you? And at night you probably slump into bed exhausted trying to recover for the next day.
It's no wonder your sex life suffers when you have no time for yourself or each other.
Make a commitment to schedule in an agreed appointment that neither of you is allowed to cancel unless it's a life or death emergency.
Make arrangements for the kids and then focus on each other.
Make it easier by getting a take-out for the night so you have more time and lock yourselves away in the bedroom having fun.
If you want to be daring arrange to turn up at your partners office for some out of hours activity.
Get dressed up in a sexy pencil-skirt suit, high-heels and no knickers; imagine the anticipation of knowing your partner was coming to have their way with you! Just remember to lock the door and check for security cameras!
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