You might still be in love with your ex girlfriend.
In fact, you may be going through the incredibly awful process of trying very hard to get over her right now, and might think that there may be no possible way you two are every going to end up back together.
If you've been apart for any longer than a week, you probably know that everyone has an opinion on what you should do to get her back.
Some may even tell you to just let her go.
Unfortunately, you truly love her, and you're dying inside.
Every second of being away from her feels like an eternity, so you need help and you need it fast.
Here's what you should do to virtually guarantee she'll come back to you and stay back...
You should never tell your ex girlfriend that you miss her or that you want to get back together.
I realize that this makes no sense, and is completely against how you actually feel, so let's look at what will happen if you do tell her that you still love her and want her back...
First, you must understand why she broke up with you.
Chances are, she actually enjoyed your relationship and loves certain parts of you and the relationship that you two had created together.
The reason that she broke up with you is because one or two personality traits that you have she didn't like or didn't agree with.
Whatever it may be, she still loves a majority of what you two have together.
So if she feels that she can still be friends with you and enjoy the relationship, yet not have to deal with the parts she doesn't like, she would in a heartbeat.
If you convey the message that you'll always be around for her, she'll take that option.
On top of that, women are instinctively drawn to the man with the stronger personality and by showing her that you are greatly affected by the breakup, you are showing her that you can't be that rock of strength that she is looking for, especially at a time like this.
Show her that you are not necessarily unaffected by the breakup, but instead able to endure the pain without too much of a problem, and you'll see that she'll actually want to come back to you.
Instead of crying and begging for her to come back, you should politely tell her that you think the breakup will be good for the both of you, and then walk away.
She'll be back, checking up on you before you even know it.
That's when you make your next move...