While many of us don't want to think about problems in our marriages they often happen when we least expect it.
Understanding that there is help is the first step to fixing problems in your marriage.
Typically it's the littlest thing over time that blows up to become the biggest reason for your divorce.
Knowing what you want and being able to tell your partner what you want to two different things.
So below are some warning signs to look for to know if there is trouble in your marriage: Mild Warning Signs: These are some mild problems that may have started small and are now growing.
Deciding to go to a therapist may help stop them from growing any larger: - Your partner is spending more time away than usual - Your partner avoids talking with you - Your finding small unknown charges on your accounts - You or your partner is spending more time alone - He/she avoids tending functions with you - You and your partner argue more than twice a week While some arguing is healthy excessive arguing can mean you or your partner is holding something back, or growing irritated with you or your behaviors.
This is an ideal time to change that and find out and get to the bottom of things.
Severe Warning Signs: As you and your partners relationship progress little or mild warning signs can become severe.
This is when troubles can destroy a marriage ending up in divorce.
If you or your partner has any of the below warning signs it is best to consult a therapist.
Getting the issues resolve before they get to out of hand is always the best recourse.
- Arguing/Fighting daily - You haven't spoken to each other in more than two days - You are uncomfortable than ever the other is around - You lose interest in seeing each other - You lose interest in going out together - Your stress level has begun to affect your physical health - You sleep a lot - You feel tired all the time While these are just a few examples it is a guide to give you a better idea on when to look for assistance.