If you keep wondering 'How can I get my wife back?', you may think it's not possible.
It IS possible to get her back, if you left her, or she left you.
That doesn't matter.
What DOES matter is that you know that you love her, and want to get her back.
Why did she leave? Do you know? Has she been hinting for some time, but you've jsts blown it off, thinking it'd blow over and everything would be fine? If so, then think about what she said.
Then come up with ways to change it.
If she said you didn't pay her enough attention, then come up with different ways to show her that you really DO care about her, and how she feels.
If she needed 'room to breathe', then give her some.
Sometimes in marriages, it is not hard to feel trapped.
Especially if you got married too soon, and one of you wasn't quite ready for the major commitment yet.
Giving someone some breathing room doesn't mean that you have to break up.
It just means that you both need time apart from each other sometimes.
A lot of couples spend time apart by having a guys' or girls' night out with their friends.
Never beg her to come back to you.
All that will do is just push her further away.
When you ask 'how can I get my wife back?', you may very well be doing this.
If you start to beg and plead, this will hurt both of you.
How have YOU been feeling lately? Depressed? Not eating? Not caring about anything but getting her back with you? It's time for some 'you time'.
That may sound corny, but you really do need it.
Time for you to feel good again.
It will not only make you feel better, but will show her that you ARE who she married.
You ARE fun to be around, and it will remind her of how very much she loves you.
You have to stop the constant worrying about her, and start worrying about yourself.
You are probably just a shell of who you were.
You won't feel like it, but you HAVE to do things you like to do.
You are a great person.
Let that person come back, and your wife will see it, and she will want to be with you again.