Everybody knows that a divorce is very stressful to both parties.
So before you experience any of the hurts, accusations, desperations, etc.
, try your best to convince your spouse not to go through a divorce.
I am not saying it is easy doing the bargaining with your partner.
Your spouse may have finally decided to go through with it.
But it is never too late.
You have still have a chance to stop a divorce.
How? Read on.
Ask for your partner to give chance in your relationship.
If you must, ask it in a matured and calm way.
Begging, pleading, or worse, threatening your spouse will just result in them hurrying the paperworks to be finished.
Honestly, even you don't want to be with somebody who acts that way.
Of course, you are in a desperate situation if your partner is considering a divorce.
But never let them know that you are struggling with the pain inside.
If you are begging with your partner, now is the time to stop.
I am saying that you stop the begging part, but let her know that you don't want a divorce.
Tell them that you are sad and hurt about the decision.
Acting calmly will make your spouse notice how you handle the situation, thus giving second thoughts about divorcing you.
Reverse psychology does wonders, you know? Another option to consider is going to a marriage counselor.
Tell your partner that instead of filing for a divorce, why not opt with counseling.
Statistics show that counseling have saved millions of marriages, so why don't you both try it.
There is a big possibility that your spouse will go with you to counseling.
No doubt your spouse have thought of many ways too on how to save the relationship.
In counseling, you ave lots of time to talk about your relationship before it has gone sour.
Let them remember why they love you in the first place.
You can show them how much you still care for your spouse and the marriage.
Admit the mistakes you've committed and be sincere in positively changing yourself.
Your spouse will see that you have changed and this may change their mind.
When luck favors you and your spouse stop the divorce, don't be relaxed.
They may file for a divorce again anytime once they feel that the relationship is having problems again.
So be thankful that you are still together and learn from the experience.
You don't want to be in that situation again, so keep going to counseling and continue showing your love to your spouse.