How come staying in a happy relationship seem so hard? Every single person that has broken up with somebody must have said that.
It seems that we (society) should be better at breaking up than we are.
I say this because, the one thought in our mind is "How To get my ex back" but we never think of the right ways in how to do this.
For example, the first thing most people do is act as needy as possible.
They are so desperate to have their ex back, they cannot even think of how desperate they are coming across.
You never want to your ex to feel pity for you.
Once that happens, its like an uphill climb after that.
It's not impossible, but you definitely made it harder on yourself.
I know that its tough not to act that way, especially when you really care about somebody.
But you have to look from the outside in.
How you present yourself in front of your ex, is the key.
All the emotions that you have, should be done in private.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with crying or screaming, but do that in your own private time, not in front of your ex.
You also don't want to come off as combative.
So many people do this, and I can't for the life of me, figure out why they do that.
It's completely counter intuitive.
How many times have you seen a couple fight with one another and you know that at least one person wants to get back together? If that's the case, the last thing that should be happening is them having a screaming match with one another.
If there are two words of advice that I would give to someone its be flexible.
Forget being stubborn.
There is no time for that.
The only thing that should matter to you is how to get my ex-back.
Having a rigid attitude will never help.