What is that special thing that makes a person fall in love with another person? If only it could be pinpointed and bottled for sale, life would be so much easier! The truth is that most people worry way to much when it comes to whether or not the person that they love will ever fall in love with them in return.
Keep reading to learn what makes a person fall in love.
First, love and lust are not the same thing, but they often get confused.
Lust is a very strong feeling and sexual chemistry with another person may make us think that we are falling for them.
While lust is a part of love and romance, it can also exist completely separate from it.
More important than lust, what makes a person fall in love is another type of chemistry: compatibility.
When you meet a person who has many of the same interests as you, that compatibility is more obvious and you know right away that you have many things to talk about and activities that you will enjoy doing together.
However, compatibility is about more than shared interests, it is recognition of a person whom you can easily enjoy spending time with even if you have almost nothing in common.
This kind of chemistry is based in deep rooted values that you share or that complement each other.
People also fall in love when they bond with someone else.
Bonding happens when two people go through something very emotional together.
The emotion may be bad or good, the point is that the two find a way through it together and become stronger from it.
True emotional bonding is what makes two people fall in love beyond those initial feelings of lust and infatuation.