After being in a great relationship for quite some time, your ex has suddenly dumped you.
The heartache you feel right now is almost unbearable.
You cannot think straight, and you really don't know what to do about the situation you are in.
You want to get your ex back, at all costs.
Of course you do! However, to be successful there are a few things that you should consider before you go ahead.
There are things that you should do, and things that you shouldn't do to get your ex back.
Yes, it is possible to fix the problem you have, even though you've been dumped.
The big thing is to think about what it was that caused your ex to walk out on you.
If your ex left after a major argument that you had, then the best is to just leave him/her alone to get over all the bad feelings that he/she has inside at the moment.
If it was something that you did that caused the argument, then, whatever it is should be fixed as soon as possible.
If you said or did something that was bad enough to make your ex walk out on you, then send him/her a message immediately, and apologise profusely for causing so much hut and anger.
Then leave it at that.
This is a way to get your ex back, but he/she needs time to think things over first.
What you definitely shouldn't do right now though, is to try and contact your ex to talk about the break up.
After a little while all the bad feelings will have disappeared, and it will make your ex a lot more approachable.
This is when you can talk to your ex about what happened and try to get your ex back.
You and your ex need time to get over the anger you are feeling right now, so that when you meet, there are really no more hard feelings.
When you do meet, just keep the discussion friendly and casual, and there is a very good chance that you and your ex will get back together again, sooner or later.