Worrying about getting your ex back all the time may not be a healthy thing to do.
If this happens to you because you love the person that much then most probably your ex is also experiencing the same thing even without you having to worry about the person.
However, the memories that may be lingering in your ex boyfriend or girlfriend's head are the circumstances which may have caused you to end up deciding to end your current relationship.
That is why it is necessary for you to make your ex remember those happy memories instead of those cruel ones.
- Use Your Head and Not Your Heart After the breakup you are now heartbroken and it is impossible for you to use your heart and have it do the decisions for you.
What you need to do now is to be logical about things and use your head instead.
You must know what strategy to use to make your ex remember those romantic and happy memories you shared together.
This is your goal for now.
- Liven Up Your Ex's Curiosity Influencing your ex to think of you in a more positive way will need a very good plan that will arouse the person's curiosity about the next thing to happen.
So let's say for instance you want to say something to your ex, instead of making a call you should rather leave a message.
This time instead of saying things that can make the situation worst, you should let the person know that every time spent while you were together is highly appreciated and that you are happy that you have now come into realization about things between the two of you.
- Do Not Mess Up By Sending the Wrong Message Be straight to the point.
Everything that you have to say to your ex must bot reveal your strategy in getting your ex back.
Since curiosity will be playing its role in this situation, it should at least be used to push your ex to make his/her move.
From here your ex might just realize that you have spent special moments for a very long time and it might just be a good idea to reconcile with you.