7 Things To Do To Get Your Ex Back! Learn This Strategy If You Want Your Ex to Like You Again
Step 1: Ask On A Friend Date: You don't need to go to the finest upscale restaurant in town, simply ask your ex to hang out.
"Hey, I heard Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure is showing at the Imax and I thought I'd check and see if you want to go...
my treat.
" Break the ice but don't be overbearing and if they say no don't worry.
Step 2: Ask Them Why Not: If your ex doesn't want to go on the date, casually ask them why not.
Maybe it's too soon, maybe they don't trust you yet or perhaps they have a new love interest but either way now you'll know what plans you have to take in order to regain their heart.
Step 3: Buy Time Your ex might not be thrilled that you're still dealing Flintstone vitamins on the corner or that you haven't finished your GED classes yet but it's important to let them know that you're working on it.
You'll need to buy time in this step so that you truly can transform your lifestyle.
Step 4: Be Patient: So you finished your classes and got a job licking envelopes at the IRS; this doesn't mean your plan is done and that your ex will immediately come running into your arms.
You've got to stick with your progression and keep working your way up out of the envelope-licking department and they'll notice.
Step 5: The Retreat: Your ex noticed that you stayed in their life immediately after the breakup, now's the time to get all psychological on them and start to put some distance between the two of you.
Remember that this space is a calculated tactic on your part and will serve the greater good.
Step 6: The Rejuvenation: Step two of the 'Three R's' is the rejuvenation phase.
You've backed off a little and now's the time to get your head right.
Do some soul searching and make sure you truly want your ex back.
Remember your life is starting to look up without them and ask if you can maintain that if they come back.
Step 7: The Relaunch: Now that you've backed away a little bit and are sure you want to be with this person, show back up into their lives and start making your pitch to win them back.
Feel free to open up and tell them how you've been working hard during the split and if everything goes right, you can take your chloroform and tire-iron back to the store.