When you are in a relationship with someone for a long time, it can be difficult to deal with the aftermath of a breakup.
You're lonely and vulnerable.
After all, this was the one person you could turn to for your good and bad days.
They were the one confidant you could talk to about your hopes and fears and now that one person is gone, leaving you to face the world alone.
What do you do? If your ex boyfriend dumps you, how do you go on and do you even have a chance to get your ex boyfriend back? While it doesn't seem likely to get your ex boyfriend back, you can do it.
By following 5 simple tips, you can have the life you wanted with your ex boyfriend at your side, making your relationship stronger and perhaps, even last for all time.
What are these 5 tips? First, cut off any kind of communication with your ex boyfriend for about a month.
While it seems silly if you are trying to get your ex boyfriend back to do this, remember that emotions are running very high.
After a month has passed, emotions have settled down and so have you and your ex boyfriend.
If you work or have classes together, be pleasant if you must talk.
Second, don't play the blame game.
Each person is at fault in the relationship.
It's never just one person's fault.
If you want your ex boyfriend back, you have to stop with the attacks and eliminate negativity.
Take responsibility for what did go wrong in the relationship.
As soon as you know what went wrong, figure out what part you played and how you can change it to not occur again (should you get the second chance or not).
Third, find out what went wrong in the relationship.
If cheating wasn't a factor, something was.
Your ex-boyfriend may have left because he didn't feel appreciated enough.
Did he do things for you that you overlooked? It's essential a guy feels appreciated in a relationship.
Fourth, don't go to his friends and family to find out information about what is going on in his life.
Your ex boyfriend may consider this stalking and will be completely turned off by it.
You may be curious but never go to extremes to find out.
Fifth, avoid any late night phone calls called drunk dialing.
You don't have to be drunk from alcohol to fall into this category.
It's late-night phone call that you do when you are depressed and want to lay your heart on your sleeve, begging him to give you a second chance.
This is never pretty and should never be done.
You can get your ex boyfriend back.
It just takes time and the right plan.