What is a bad girl to do when she needs a good spanking? Or where in the world can you find someone to give a spanking to? The world is a big place, but when you are interested in the kinkier side of things it seems quite hard to find other people who are into the same things you are into. Fetish dating is not easy, but with these tips you may be surprised with your results.

A great place to meet people is at the local scene level. Most communities have events called "Munches" that are meals at a restaurant and a time to get to know others in the scene. This is a safe way for you to meet new people in your area. Also if you have talked to someone online a munch is a great place to ask around about them. Someone in a place like that will know if the person has had a bad reputation in the past.

Think ahead of time what your expectations are for your fetish relationship. When you know ahead of time you are able to be honest with the other person and let them know what you are looking for. This will prevent confusion and hurt feelings later. Ask them what they want. Find out where they want to see things go. If your paths aren't a match you have saved yourself a lot of wasted time.

Consider doing a checklist. A checklist in the fetish world is a list of things you may or may not have interest in. You can find a bunch of these by going to Google and typing in BDSM checklist. Fill this out so that when you begin talking to a perspective new friend you can share this with them. They can give you their checklist and in turn find out more about you at the same time.

Fetish relationships can be fun if they are handled with a little bit of common sense. Make sure that in everything you do you are safe. Meet in public places, don't use drugs or alcohol, find out about the person before you meet them. If you follow these rules you will be successful in the world of fetish. there is really no better, safer way to meet people and get known in the scene, it is the way I used and countless others as well.