Not all break-ups are forever.
In fact a good proportion of people who have broken up, often get back together with their boyfriend or girlfriend and then go on to lead happy ever after lives.
If you have recently broken up and are asking your self 'How can I get my ex back?' then read on because this article will let you in on a few tricks you can do to turn love back on your side.
Right now you are probably hurting and having feelings ranging from sadness to anger to loneliness.
It's very normal to feel these emotions after a break up which is why many couples continue to fight even after they are no longer together - because the wounds are still open and you want to let the other person know how much you are hurting.
But acting like this in front of your ex is not the best way to get back together with them; in fact it could hurt your chances even more.
The secret to getting back with your ex is to act confident around them.
I know the last thing you are probably feeling right now is confidence but relationship experts believe that an optimistic confident attitude is likely to attract your partner back into your arms.
The best way to keep your confidence levels up is to keep yourself busy.
Anytime you feel depressed or vulnerable make sure you don't show it in public, especially if you ex is likely to either see you or hear about it from someone else.
You want your boyfriend or girlfriend to think that you are strong and can survive on your own and that you are more than capable of handling this emotional situation.
This is not the right time to be staying at home (that will only make you more lonely), you need to get out and socialize with your friends.
It's also a good time to try and expand your social circle and start to meet new people.
The more people you start to bring into your life, the easier it will be to keep up a cheerful attitude throughout your day because you'll slowly start to feel good about yourself again and you ex will recognize and see this.
They will start to see you in a new light and probably want to get back in touch to see what's up.
It's not just your attitude that you need to keep in check, make sure you always look good too.
Go and buy a new pair of shoes, or get your hair cut at a top hairdressing salon so you'll look your very best.
If you look good it will be much easier to feel good about yourself as well.
It's also important that you look a million bucks if you happen to run into your ex partner as this will show your ex that you are doing fine and you are mature and responsible.
This will drive them crazy and they will want to reconnect with this new confident you.