Everyone suffers breakups, in fact we all go through many of them.
Every time we try to tell ourselves that we will not get as attached, but every time we get in deeper than than the time before.
This time you are telling yourself that you are going to win this girl back, you just need a plan of attack if you plan on getting my girl back.
Give her time to forget and forgive.
This is going to be the hardest thing to do, but it needs to be done.
Right now you are probably an emotional wreck so this is definitely not the time to talk to her.
You both need time to settle down and think about things.
You will be amazed at how much a person can forget with time, and in some cases you may just be able to jump back in her arms with no effort if you can keep yourself from bugging her.
Get out and have some fun.
Use this time to focus on you.
You need to do everything possible to have a good time and become happier.
People love being around positive and upbeat people, so you can bet that your shot at winning her back will be much better if you can prove to her that you are getting along fine without her.
You may consider using this time to do things that you love to do, but she personally did not like you doing.
I have a friend who used this time to return to bull riding and another who started going to poker tournaments.
If these are the things you love to do, then by all means do them.
Just do yourself a favor and do not brag about doing them when you resume contact with your ex.
Do NOT use this time to find ways to make her jealous.
Some people will tell you that this is a great way to get her attention, but in the end you will only succeed in furthering the rift.
You may get her attention initially, but this is not something that will renew her interest in you long term.
You should instead just do the things you just learned about, and plan your next move.