Did you have a few boyfriends back in high school, but you never really learned the art of making a guy fall in love with you? Do you kind of feel naive when love, men and relationships are brought up? Are you at that stage in your life where you think it's about time you learn about the game of love? It's never too late to learn.
Men have a way of making a distinction between the women they want to sleep with and not think about in the morning, and the women they want to embrace and keep in their life for always.
So you see, sex isn't always the quickest way to a true romance.
In fact, it's usually a killer.
Kind of like reading the last page of a thriller, finding out who the culprit is, then trying to read the book with any amount of intrigue or interest.
You already know how it ends...
what's the point? Well, sex before he gets to know anything about you works the same way.
He figures he already had you, knows all the intimate sexy details about you so why should he bother getting to know more? So, how about if you start at page one.
Build up that intrigue and interest by weaving a fascinating web of tidbits of information about yourself.
Give him some insight as to who you are, all while leaving him a few things to discover along the way.
Bring him on a thrilling ride that will have him excited about seeing you again.
Have quiet dinners together discussing everything and anything you're passionate about.
Go hiking or biking or boating or flying and enjoy the adventure together.
Draw out the best in him by being ready to listen to him and by showing that you're interested to know more.
Play into his need to impress you.
Fulfill his desire to show you the man that he can be and encourage him to reach for his dreams.
Only once you've created this intense bond that is based on trust, respect, admiration and fun can you start to toy with the notion of having sex together.
The experience is sure to be something you hadn't expected, because now you'll be with a man who loves you.