It is tough sometimes for men to accept the fact that their girlfriend is no longer interested in them and want to leave the relationship.
It can be a real blow to their egos.
Resulting in their belief that they will be able to call their ex the next morning and everything will be as it was before.
You do need a plan before you try taking on reuniting with your ex girlfriend.
There are numerous steps to keep in mind as you work through this process.
- First and foremost, you should ask yourself, "Do I really still love her?" "Do I really want her back?" Make sure your answers are true ones.
You do not want her just because you do not want to be alone or that you are scared that you will never find anyone else with which to spend your life.
Also, do not let your ego get in the way and try to get her back just so you can dump her first.
- Never let your ex girlfriend see you desperate or needy.
A man who begs and bothers is probably not the man with whom she would want to spend time.
If you are having trouble controlling yourself, seek out family members or friends to talk through things.
Never ever follow her around trying to see what she is doing or where she is going.
- She will never come back to you if she finds you stalking her or calling her repeatedly begging for her forgiveness.
You have to be strong and in control of yourself.
Most women prefer a strong man.
- Make sure you let her know that you are always there for her to talk to.
That the lines of communication are open and you can be civil.
You may not want to be the first to start a conversation either.
Let her make the first call.
Let her know you are still friendly towards her, there are no hard feelings, and keeping in touch is very possible.
- Last but not least, spend sometime thinking through the things that went wrong in your relationship.
Figure out what can be done differently and find ways to make it better, if you were to get back with her.
Do not make the same mistakes twice.