Has your guy said he loves you, but you're not so sure he really does? How can you tell if he means what he says, or says it simply because he thinks you want to hear it? Would you like to be able to really answer the question "does he love you?" before you become too attached to him, thus risking another painful breakup? If so, read the following to learn how to tell where your relationship really stands.
Is your time together all about him? He may be spending a lot of time with you, but that doesn't necessarily mean he loves you.
He may just be looking for a sympathetic ear to spill his problems to.
Take a good look at the conversations and interactions you have with him.
If he uses up all the time focusing on himself and showing little interest in your issues, it is possible that he is simply using you to fulfill his temporary needs.
That could indicate a problem.
Will he lend his support to you? Will he really listen when you want to talk about your terrible day - or share some exciting news with him? Can he tear himself away from his video game or sports event long enough to let you cry on his shoulder or celebrate your good news? If he can't, he probably doesn't have sincere feelings for you, since those are the kinds of support you should be able to expect from someone who loves you.
Best to find out now before you have too much invested in him.
Will he commit to an exclusive relationship? If he is still intent on playing the field after you have been dating for a while, it's a good indication that he doesn't love you enough to want to settle down.
If he can't see the benefit in committing to you alone - especially if you're involved in a physical relationship with him - it is time to move on.
Does he love you? The answers to these questions will help you know for sure.