Everyone handles relationships differently and there are people that are not interested in a relationship at all just friendship with benefits.
The conflict comes when one person wants a relationship and the other doesn't.
The partner who is looking for a monogamous long term relationship is often insecure, clingy and will quickly be left alone because of these traits.
Thus, getting the exact opposite of what they need, feeling hurt and abandoned without even understanding why.
After a few failed attempts they may feel there is something wrong with them so they overcompensate become clingier, trying harder to please a mate and it becomes a vicious cycle for them.
This type of person will most likely never find what they need from a partner unless they make some changes.
In the beginning of a relationship or when you are getting to know someone you want to be around them all the time and the relationship is full of passion and excitement.
For some people this may last only until the consummation then they are done and off to the next person.
It takes time to get to know someone, they say you don't really know a person until you live with them but I don't agree with that.
It's all about knowing yourself, you need to know what you want and expect from a partner.
There are people that live all their lives happily single and have many healthy relationships.
If you find you have trouble maintaining a healthy relationship there are some things you should consider and maybe some changes you could make that will turn your life around.
Don't get into a relationship thinking you can change someone, you can't.
The only person you can control is you and you must know what you need in order to cut through the fluff and get it.
Confidence is sexy and a very desirable quality to have.
Increase your confidence with little effort just by getting to know yourself better.
If you are not sure what you are looking for at least know what you don't want.
Even this one little change will save a lot of time and make your relationships better.
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Practice your hobbies and interests 2.
Get more exercise 3.
Watch the news so you have more to talk about Taking steps to increase your self confidence can be easily done.
You will notice a lot of positive things start to happen as you become more self assured.
You will be more comfortable around people and more attractive to the opposite sex.