If you are in the midst of a break up or divorce, and you still love your ex, saying goodbye is the hardest thing in the world to do.
I have found, through my own experience, that the best way to deal with the pain is by putting my feelings on paper.
Just sit down, absorb how you feel, and write it all out.
Here is an example of my goodbye : Just Friends...
A True Love Tragedy I could not change the mind of my heart and go back to like from love A total lack of self-control using angry words as a shove I have pushed you so far away now seems you will never come back to me The spark you had for me is gone making us a true love tragedy Living in a constant state of the way we use to be Is not a smart thing to do for lovesick fools like me I tried everything I could to become the man you would want Pulling out all the stops while you were saying don't I have said so many things to you that with all my heart regret I am only left to pray now those words you'll soon forget I never meant to hurt you or to drive you away from me I guess I wanted too much from you in this true love tragedy You wanted nothing else than for us to just be friends I simply could not handle that so I guess our story ends Knowing you do not love me cuts my soul just like a knife You are the one I'm certain that was meant to be my wife I guess I will let you go now so you can enjoy your life Never again to bother you with pressure, stress, and strife Yes I do still love you I am sure I always will You want nothing more to do with me and yet I love you still Be kind to yourself love and always take good care Ever if your mind should change for you I will always be there After writing this, I began to feel so much better about myself, and also found it so much easier to let go.
So if you have to say goodbye, and you are having a hard time in doing so, then I suggest you sit down and write it all out.
You will feel much better in the end.