So you are trying to get your ex back after a break up, but you realize that your ex is ignoring you totally, so how are you going to find ways to get an ex back in such a situation? Well, it depends on a few factors.
Perhaps, one of the more important factor to consider is the period of time for your break up.
If you have just broken up, perhaps a few days ago, then it is best that you do not worry about it now.
In fact, it may be better that you don't contact him/her during this period.
Perhaps, 30 days will be a good time period.
Of course, if you are not ready to contact him/her yet, you can always take a few more days but you want to have a balance.
You don't want it to drag for too long either.
There are several reasons why you don't want to contact your ex for the time being.
First, if your ex is ignoring you anyway, calling him/her more often is probably not to going to help you in your situation.
Most probably, he/she may still be in a state of confusion.
So, he/she may also need these 30 days to cool down and sort out his/her thinking.
So, give both of you the time to take a break.
You might fare better if you contact him/her 30 days later.
By then, he/she might be more ready to pick up the phone.
Here is one mistake you want to avoid.
If you tried calling him/her 30 days later and your ex still didn't pick up the phone, you don't want to continue calling him/her again.
It is best to wait a few more days before the next phone call.
One reasons because you don't want to appear desperate even if you really feel so.
Just keep on calling him/her every few days, gradually increasing the number of days between each call.
Eventually, he/she should be picking up the phone.
However, if after months of doing so, you still did not get any response, perhaps it is time to move on?