Want to Save Your Marriage? Try Intimacy!
If your marriage is suffering through tough times, you must firmly believe that you can save your marriage in order to be able to do so. Without this belief, whatever you do will make no difference. So, at least for now, believe that you can and will save your marriage.
A common missing aspect of marriages in trouble is a lack of intimacy extending beyond the physical and encompassing all things emotional in the marriage. You must decide if your marriage contains or lacks this important need.
Is there openness and transparency with your mate? Do you express yourself freely or hide your emotions, dealing with issues on your own? If you exclude your spouse in any way, then your marriage lacks intimacy. If such is the case, then you need to inject some intimacy into your marriage in order to save it.
Part of a good marriage is the sharing of good times and bad. The couple is a unit, each with equal involvement in the life of the other. Often, in order to protect a mate, the other partner bottles up problems, trying to deal with them on their own, creating additional stress which the other mate eventually recognizes but doesn't know the cause. One partner is being excluded which manifests a feeling of being shut out.
Among couples, there is an easy sense of when something is wrong. If communication is lacking with regard to problems in the marriage, then the hurt begins to surface due to being left out.
There is another way to inject intimacy into your marriage, which is to make time for it. We live in a very busy society with limitations on time spent with our families and loved ones. This is a sure way to experience problems with your marriage. After tending to the other members of your family and keeping your career on track, you discover that your marriage has hit bottom.
Make your spouse aware that you consider him or her important enough to alter your schedule or other activities to include them. Plan a spontaneous afternoon event with your spouse putting them ahead of your normal work schedule. When your spouse sees that you are willing to change your schedule to include them, you will see your marriage improve dramatically.
Creating and maintaining intimacy in a marriage is an ongoing process which never can be set on "auto-pilot." A healthy and intimate marriage is one that will thrive only if it is nutured constantly.
You have read a sample of material from "The Magic of Making Up." It is a proven and easy to follow method of solving problems found in personal relationships. Its author, T. 'Dub' Jackson, has received heartfelt gratitude from his many readers worldwide for his skill in identifying problems and applying quick and effective solutions, thus saving many relationships which otherwise might have been doomed to certain failure.
To read "The Magic of Making Up" in its entirety, just click to:
http://clarkfan1.makingup.hop.Clickbank.net
A common missing aspect of marriages in trouble is a lack of intimacy extending beyond the physical and encompassing all things emotional in the marriage. You must decide if your marriage contains or lacks this important need.
Is there openness and transparency with your mate? Do you express yourself freely or hide your emotions, dealing with issues on your own? If you exclude your spouse in any way, then your marriage lacks intimacy. If such is the case, then you need to inject some intimacy into your marriage in order to save it.
Part of a good marriage is the sharing of good times and bad. The couple is a unit, each with equal involvement in the life of the other. Often, in order to protect a mate, the other partner bottles up problems, trying to deal with them on their own, creating additional stress which the other mate eventually recognizes but doesn't know the cause. One partner is being excluded which manifests a feeling of being shut out.
Among couples, there is an easy sense of when something is wrong. If communication is lacking with regard to problems in the marriage, then the hurt begins to surface due to being left out.
There is another way to inject intimacy into your marriage, which is to make time for it. We live in a very busy society with limitations on time spent with our families and loved ones. This is a sure way to experience problems with your marriage. After tending to the other members of your family and keeping your career on track, you discover that your marriage has hit bottom.
Make your spouse aware that you consider him or her important enough to alter your schedule or other activities to include them. Plan a spontaneous afternoon event with your spouse putting them ahead of your normal work schedule. When your spouse sees that you are willing to change your schedule to include them, you will see your marriage improve dramatically.
Creating and maintaining intimacy in a marriage is an ongoing process which never can be set on "auto-pilot." A healthy and intimate marriage is one that will thrive only if it is nutured constantly.
You have read a sample of material from "The Magic of Making Up." It is a proven and easy to follow method of solving problems found in personal relationships. Its author, T. 'Dub' Jackson, has received heartfelt gratitude from his many readers worldwide for his skill in identifying problems and applying quick and effective solutions, thus saving many relationships which otherwise might have been doomed to certain failure.
To read "The Magic of Making Up" in its entirety, just click to:
http://clarkfan1.makingup.hop.Clickbank.net
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