Usually children who live with divorced family sometimes tend to have long-term adjustment and have difficulties when conflict between their parents is ongoing, a child adjustments is also being determined by the amount of conflict the parents had gone long before the divorce, if the parents discuss first the divorce to their children in a head of time, the tendency is that the child could somehow prepare Himself ahead before the decision of the court is being made, a child won't find it harder to cope-up with the situation as long as it is explain to them accordingly and in a nice way, and also it is very important that their relationship with each of their parents may not change.
A child may be frustrated with the divorce of their parents, sometimes they even do rebellious things while adjusting with the situation that their parents is going through, the negative Effect of divorce to a child can be avoided by considering some factors, some of which are the following: always let your children that both of you their parents will continue to love them even though you are separated, be honest in explaining to them question that your child may try to ask, always let them bare to their mind that they are not the reason why the two of you separated, let them know that everything will be okay and that you are always there whenever they may need help and lastly and most importantly always response to their needs.
Children who had divorced parents, may be okay in all aspect of their adjustment as long as it's blatant to them that even though their parents were no longer together, the love and respect that they used to have will not change and that people around them will help them to adjust, to continue live a nice happily life.