Do Not Be Afraid to Have Another Relationship
Sometimes when people undergo heartbreak in relationships or when their partner break ups with them, they feel miserable and decide never to have another relationship.
They seem to lose confidence in relationships and they feel that it is better to remain alone than to take risk of another heartbreak.
They are afraid to seek association like they used to earlier.
Because of this social fear, they become introvert and keep at a distance from people.
They may even decide to remain single for the rest for the lives.
However, this approach is not very appropriate and healthy.
It is natural for people to seek company.
Everyone needs a partner to share his life with.
Such people may feel that they are happy alone yet they are not.
What they must remember is that a bad experience or a break up does not mean that they will surely face the same situation in another relationship as well.
It is just like when you go to a restaurant and order some food.
If it is not according to your taste, you order another; you do not quit eating! Similarly, having a partner by your side is an emotional requirement of every person and you must not starve emotionally if you have had an unpleasant experience.
It is natural that some relationships would work and some will not.
You must not think that if a relationship has not turned alright, it is the end of the world.
The world is full of people and there are definitely such people with whom your frequencies do match.
You should learn from your past experience and analyze the reason for your break up.
If you find the fault with yourself, you should try to overcome such failings within you so that you can have a better relationship next time.
If the problem was from your partner's side, you must remember that we are all individuals and every one holds a certain opinion.
You cannot expect that everyone should be like you.
Your relationship may not work if someone is totally different from you.
In this case, you should remember that you can also find people who are of your like and thus can have a better relationship in future.
They seem to lose confidence in relationships and they feel that it is better to remain alone than to take risk of another heartbreak.
They are afraid to seek association like they used to earlier.
Because of this social fear, they become introvert and keep at a distance from people.
They may even decide to remain single for the rest for the lives.
However, this approach is not very appropriate and healthy.
It is natural for people to seek company.
Everyone needs a partner to share his life with.
Such people may feel that they are happy alone yet they are not.
What they must remember is that a bad experience or a break up does not mean that they will surely face the same situation in another relationship as well.
It is just like when you go to a restaurant and order some food.
If it is not according to your taste, you order another; you do not quit eating! Similarly, having a partner by your side is an emotional requirement of every person and you must not starve emotionally if you have had an unpleasant experience.
It is natural that some relationships would work and some will not.
You must not think that if a relationship has not turned alright, it is the end of the world.
The world is full of people and there are definitely such people with whom your frequencies do match.
You should learn from your past experience and analyze the reason for your break up.
If you find the fault with yourself, you should try to overcome such failings within you so that you can have a better relationship next time.
If the problem was from your partner's side, you must remember that we are all individuals and every one holds a certain opinion.
You cannot expect that everyone should be like you.
Your relationship may not work if someone is totally different from you.
In this case, you should remember that you can also find people who are of your like and thus can have a better relationship in future.
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