When your boyfriend goes, you need to have a plan and act fast.
By following these steps, you'll have him back in no time and your relationship will be more stable than ever.
The first thing to do is ask yourself some questions.
Be honest with yourself, but avoid hours of soul-searching that won't help you and will actually hinder your attempts to get back together.
Why did you break up? Whilst there may be several smaller reasons, there is almost always one big thing which has caused the break up.
Once you have identified this thing, ask yourself what you could or should have done differently.
Did you say something you regret, did you find yourself acting more like a mother than a partner, were you taking him for granted? With this information you now know what not to do which is critical for your future success.
Now you need to consider how to get back in touch.
Avoid desperation tactics.
Nobody likes 20 begging phone calls a day! Your job here is simply to remind your ex about the qualities he first saw in you.
what did you enjoy together? where did you go? Take things slowly.
A break up doesn't need to be the end of a relationship, but it is a warning sign that something went wrong.
Don't just start again where you left off, this is a sure-fire way to guarantee a definitive end further down the road.
Show that you've learned the lesson (but without becoming a completely different person).
Your boyfriend will appreciate you all the more.