"Please tell me how to get back with my ex boyfriend.
" If you've gone through a break up with the man you love, chances are very good that you've said that exact phrase to your close girlfriends.
We often turn to friends when we're facing an emotional issue because we believe they'll be able to offer us some sound guidance.
The problem with that is that most women will all tell you the same thing which is that you should just move on and forget about him.
They don't and can't know what's in your heart though and if you firmly believe he's the man you should be with, no amount of telling you to forget him is going to work.
You want him back so do whatever you need to do to get him back.
It's not nearly as complicated as you may think.
If you've got some patience, some control and a lot of willpower, you can actually get your man back and deeper in love with you than ever.
Apologizing may not be on your list of things to do after you've been dumped by a man, but it can actually help you to get him back.
Your pride is obviously hurt after the man you love leaves you, but you seriously have to consider what caused things to fall apart.
It's easy to point the finger of blame solely at him but that's just not realistic.
If you were the ideal girlfriend for him, he wouldn't have wanted to end things.
That's why it's essential that you take some time to consider what role your actions played in his decision to end things.
You have to think about what you did and then tell him you're sorry.
The apology should be genuine, short and you need to be in control of your emotions when you're delivering it.
If you can do this, you'll lay the foundation for a renewed chance at romance with him.
Becoming platonic friends with your ex may seem like emotional torture, but it can actually help to win back his heart.
Many happy relationships are built on strong friendships.
Most men are open to the idea of being friends with an ex so approach him with the idea.
You then have to follow through with the notion of it just being a friendship.
This means no long evening dates, no calling him endlessly just to talk and you shouldn't pry about his current dating status.
Treat him as you would any other friend and show him all your best qualities.
He'll feel more open to you if he doesn't feel you trying to get him to talk about what went wrong or when you'll get back together.
Over time he'll let his guard down again and he'll remember the wonderful times you two have shared in the past.
From there it won't take long before he's back in love with you.