These following marriage problems are caused because the root of the problem is boredom.
A lot of couples fall into routine that goes a little something like this: wake up, go to work, come back home, have dinner, sleep.
Rinse and repeat.
When the weekend comes, either stay and home and relax, or go out with friends and enjoy your spare time.
Rinse and repeat that as well.
If you enjoy the simple life, good.
That will benefit you.
However, it won't benefit your marriage.
It will likely stagnate, meaning that it will slowly rot and get more and more prone to divorce.
The solution is spontaneity and here are three more problems it can solve.
1.
Low Sex Drive I'm going to talk about the most awkward problem that can be solved by a wife who is spontaneous.
If your sex drive is slowly down almost to a trundle, you want to do something that gives it a kick start.
It might be doing something crazy like hiring a 5-star hotel, or simply being naughty in public and not trying to get caught, but if the woman initiates and is spontaneous with her sex, you can expect the man to pick up and make the problem go away faster.
2.
Sick Of Each Other If you don't do something to break up your routine, you might start feeling sick of each other.
If you're spontaneous enough and really want to rekindle the romance and connection in your life, this could be a possibility you might recommend: a temporary hall pass for each other.
This is inspired by the movie that came out earlier in 2011.
It's bold and really, you're not cheating on your partner if you let each other sleep with other people.
Regardless of whether you do sleep with someone else or not, the sudden "singleness" could be what you need to get a perspective on your marriage to make you appreciate it again.
3.
Loss Of Love This is always a problem that is caused by being stuck in a boring routine.
If you're not putting in the effort and simply going through the motions, it is so easy to simply fall out of love.
Think of love as a train.
It comes and goes.
If you are slack, you can miss the train without even meaning to and it might not be back for a while either too.
Do something romantically spontaneous, with a "male" twist.
There is a lot of stuff you can do that men find romantic.
If your husband is younger, maybe he likes playing video games.
Playing video games for one night instead of a romantic dinner could be just what he would want to see you as that fun-loving girl that he fell in love with.
These relationship problems can be fixed by a wife who is spontaneous.
If you put the effort in to be random, you can jump start your marriage and make sure that it's alive and kicking again.