When a woman signs the marriage papers, she never does it by thinking that some time it's all going to end.
She makes the vows sincerely and expects to be married for a lifetime.
Initially, there seems to be no problems, but some time after the honeymoon phase ends, realities begin to settle in, there appears problems.
Things may get out of hand, to the point where your husband wants a divorce and you don't.
But you are not helpless - there are things to win your husband back and stop a divorce from happening, and here they are.
When your husband wants a divorce and you don't, you naturally want to look at the reasons.
A big reason men want divorce is usually that their wife has lost dynamicism and became a dull, "boring" woman.
This wasn't the case before, because you weren't married.
After you married, the routines of everyday life can force you to indeed become less lively and dynamic.
So, even if you don't think this is the primary reason your husband wants a divorce, you want to fix that, and it's invariably going to help.
Get a new hobby.
Take a new class about something interesting.
Be more interesting and less predictable.
Also, another thing to do when your husband wants a divorce and you don't is to ask yourself whether you have really been listening to your husband when he talks.
I'm sure you're saying "of course I am!" now, but usually this is not the case.
After being married for some time, it's nearly natural to take your spouse for granted; and this always results in a spouse not listening to the other intently and carefully enough.
Your husband needs to be understood, as does everyone else.
So, listen to him, and make him feel how much you value and adore him in your life.
Don't forget that if you are able to show that you value him, he's going to be emotionally closer to you.
Your husband wants do, and in a way needs to, hear from you that you value him so much and would marry him if it were today in a heartbeat.