My lover left me: what do I do? You want your lover back because to you, it isn't really over.
Maybe they said it was finished but you still think there's a chance! Is there a proven method to get your ex back? Pick up your pen, now! Hopefully you are comfortable writing, but if not, then get your pen ready because this is an important step! You want to send your ex a note, or a letter right away.
Remember to be honest and be humble.
Your thoughts are going crazy and you have so many questions, but hold tight and think for a second.
Maybe your best bet to getting back together is a different method than you would have guessed.
Agree with your ex.
It could be that you've already gone nuts over the whole thing and sent your ex a bunch of texts or even drunk dialed them thinking "I'll spill my guts and get my lover back!" Probably didn't work out so well.
If you haven't already resorted to these tactics, then good.
You're better off.
Write a handwritten note saying that you agree with the reasons for the breakup.
Sounds crazy but this is actually one of your best options right now.
Say, "You're right, maybe this is the best thing for both of us!" This can be a scary move, but it's likely the best move.
You have to be willing to let go.
You want your ex back so bad but for some reason maybe someone needs some space, or there is some resolve needed.
Right now you want what you can't have.
You want your ex back right now and you're not going to get it.
So write a sincere, handwritten note out of humility and forget your ego.
This is your first move.