Don"t Just Make Your Ex Want You Back! Make Your Ex Want to Hit On You Again!
So you ex dumped you, but somewhere along they way, he or she realized what a grave mistake they made by leaving you, and they want you back.
But to really make them pay, don't give in so easily.
You need to make him or her work for it a little bit and make them not only want you back, but so desperate for you that you make your ex want to hit on you again - just like in the early stages of your relationship.
Look, the thing is, often the going gets rough, we breakup, and then our partner goes out and has a fling with another person.
They realize that this new person does not compare to you and they begin to see the error of their own ways.
They know you are still missing them after the breakup, and think they will have no problems jumping right back into your heart.
But you are not a convenience item.
You cannot be dropped so he or she can "test the waters" and then them expect you to take them right back! This is a huge likelihood that your ex still loves you like mad, but the fact is, they are kind of using you at this point and time.
Don't allow yourself to look like a pushover and don't give in on their first request.
Make your ex want to hit on you again! Change your look or get a makeover.
Join a gym and get into the best shape of your life.
Go out with your friends and have a good time.
Make them eat their heart out when they get a load of the new and improved you! You'll likely run into him or her when you are out on the town, act nonchalant and let them get a load of what they are missing out on - you! Your ex is going to see you looking better than ever and is likely going to start to change their tune about you.
They will wonder why it is that you seem to be able to have such a good time without them.
They may begin to think that they overestimated the power they hold in your life as your happiness is obviously not tied up exclusively in them.
They are likely to try everything they can to get back with you.
He or she needs to know that you deserve to be treated as gold and cannot be dropped at the merest inconvenience.
When you see that he or she really has changed and is going to treat you in the manner you deserve to be treated, you can give them another chance, but not until you've made them regret their decision and you've been a success in your efforts to make your ex want to hit on you again.
But to really make them pay, don't give in so easily.
You need to make him or her work for it a little bit and make them not only want you back, but so desperate for you that you make your ex want to hit on you again - just like in the early stages of your relationship.
Look, the thing is, often the going gets rough, we breakup, and then our partner goes out and has a fling with another person.
They realize that this new person does not compare to you and they begin to see the error of their own ways.
They know you are still missing them after the breakup, and think they will have no problems jumping right back into your heart.
But you are not a convenience item.
You cannot be dropped so he or she can "test the waters" and then them expect you to take them right back! This is a huge likelihood that your ex still loves you like mad, but the fact is, they are kind of using you at this point and time.
Don't allow yourself to look like a pushover and don't give in on their first request.
Make your ex want to hit on you again! Change your look or get a makeover.
Join a gym and get into the best shape of your life.
Go out with your friends and have a good time.
Make them eat their heart out when they get a load of the new and improved you! You'll likely run into him or her when you are out on the town, act nonchalant and let them get a load of what they are missing out on - you! Your ex is going to see you looking better than ever and is likely going to start to change their tune about you.
They will wonder why it is that you seem to be able to have such a good time without them.
They may begin to think that they overestimated the power they hold in your life as your happiness is obviously not tied up exclusively in them.
They are likely to try everything they can to get back with you.
He or she needs to know that you deserve to be treated as gold and cannot be dropped at the merest inconvenience.
When you see that he or she really has changed and is going to treat you in the manner you deserve to be treated, you can give them another chance, but not until you've made them regret their decision and you've been a success in your efforts to make your ex want to hit on you again.
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