Why do couples fight? Why is that after the honeymoon period, partners start to quarrel very soon? In some cases, as in a celebrity's case a few years back, dissolved her marriage within an hour of tying the knot, young couples do not have the patience to try and solve any problems between themselves.
They do not wait for any betterment of situation.
The result, break ups and emotional hassles.
What is the main reason for the fight? A breakdown in communication is the main problem.
Not understanding each other properly and trying to prove themselves right and being adamant about it causes serious fights which may lead to abuse.
Why do couples argue? They do because they have difference of opinion.
They do not agree on a particular matter, which leads to an argument.
This, if fueled by ego leads to fights and certain words are spoken, which cannot be taken back.
If true love does not exist between such couples, then slowly all the hidden grudges of the past surface up and soon leads to a separation.
How can this problem be solved? A serious evaluation must be done by the couple themselves.
They must sit down and have a serious talk on their relationship problems.
They must set their priorities right if they want to continue their marriage.
The couple must calm down if they have had a fight and think about what led to the fight and whether it was worth it? Where is the love that united them? Are they very selfish so as to refute the partner? Why do they differ on certain points? Whether they differ on all matters? If the couple find answers to these questions together then they are already on the way to solving their relationship problems.
Nothing is impossible if tried.
What made the couple unite can still be a strong binding force.
The persons involved must try to see reason and adjust so as to heal wounds.
Being a little humble will not harm anyone, after all nobody is perfect.
Everybody has flaws, but it should not be magnified and presented before all, which can be very demeaning and can infuriate the partner.
Grudges would be formed leading to many problems in the future.
If the couple cannot solve their relationship issues by themselves, then they can rely on their closest relatives for advice and talks with partners.
Older relatives have a life time of rich experience which they can share.
Two heads are better than one.
Give each other space and time.
Too much of proximity can lead to boredom and eventually the relationship wears out with time.
The human mind is always seeking change, so try to keep the partnership afresh all the time by surprising with gifts, sudden showers of love, giving full attention and sharing special moments.
It could be a life saver.
Listing out priorities, seeking advice from elders, talking about same interests and showing signs of love can help couples to stay together and form the rocky foundation of marriage.
Please do read my views and simple advice to keep your marriage.
I want your marriage to stay.