Want My Wife Back - I Admit That I Created A Mess
"I want my wife back!" is the shrill cry of some husbands who have screwed up the relationship by being indiscreet, insensitive and sometimes even stupid.
You might have been dumb or you might have been wily, without realizing what you were doing.
You are now stuck in a hole dug by you and want to extricate yourself.
If you really feel sorry about what you have done and admit that you created a mess, then it is for you to take action to undo the damage you have done.
Since you are reading this, I assume that you are serious about doing something to mitigate the problem.
This shows that you have the one most needed quality to achieve your desire - humility.
I once read a quote saying that humility is often an overrated virtue.
I beg to disagree.
In my experience, humility is a rarity.
It is a quality so essential in mending a relationship and if you are sincere in your wish, "I want my wife back," learn some humility first.
Humility means respecting the other person.
It is not submitting yourself to another.
In fact humility implies a sense of dignity.
You have dignity and treat the other person with dignity.
That is humility in a nutshell.
Being humble means that you don't think too much about yourself.
You accept that as a human being you might have been wrong some times, Being humble is not simple, especially if you have a giant size ego sitting on your head.
You will have to stoop down, admit to your wife that you were wrong and ask her to forgive you.
If you do not feel comfortable about doing this, remember the title of the famous book, "She stoops to conquer.
" Tell yourself that you are stooping to conquer her! If your wife is considerate, she will not allow you to apologize too much and will forgive you quickly.
If she is tough, she will not be easily moved and you need to be patient and persevering.
When you admit your mistake, be straightforward.
Don't try to explain why you did what you did.
This kind of labored explanation will only have the effect of nullifying your apology.
Be sincere in your apology.
Do not fake it.
People can see through your pretenses.
If your wife reacts angrily and continues to blame you, just grin and bear it.
Do not contradict her even if she is wrong.
A patient approach will strengthen your efforts.
It will not be long before she will calm down and begin to see reason.
You might have been dumb or you might have been wily, without realizing what you were doing.
You are now stuck in a hole dug by you and want to extricate yourself.
If you really feel sorry about what you have done and admit that you created a mess, then it is for you to take action to undo the damage you have done.
Since you are reading this, I assume that you are serious about doing something to mitigate the problem.
This shows that you have the one most needed quality to achieve your desire - humility.
I once read a quote saying that humility is often an overrated virtue.
I beg to disagree.
In my experience, humility is a rarity.
It is a quality so essential in mending a relationship and if you are sincere in your wish, "I want my wife back," learn some humility first.
Humility means respecting the other person.
It is not submitting yourself to another.
In fact humility implies a sense of dignity.
You have dignity and treat the other person with dignity.
That is humility in a nutshell.
Being humble means that you don't think too much about yourself.
You accept that as a human being you might have been wrong some times, Being humble is not simple, especially if you have a giant size ego sitting on your head.
You will have to stoop down, admit to your wife that you were wrong and ask her to forgive you.
If you do not feel comfortable about doing this, remember the title of the famous book, "She stoops to conquer.
" Tell yourself that you are stooping to conquer her! If your wife is considerate, she will not allow you to apologize too much and will forgive you quickly.
If she is tough, she will not be easily moved and you need to be patient and persevering.
When you admit your mistake, be straightforward.
Don't try to explain why you did what you did.
This kind of labored explanation will only have the effect of nullifying your apology.
Be sincere in your apology.
Do not fake it.
People can see through your pretenses.
If your wife reacts angrily and continues to blame you, just grin and bear it.
Do not contradict her even if she is wrong.
A patient approach will strengthen your efforts.
It will not be long before she will calm down and begin to see reason.
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