You may wonder if there is any wisdom in the idea of having to give your ex some space so as to be able to get them back.
In actual fact, that idea sounds rather unhelpful.
But by the time you look through things more properly, you will realize that the idea is actually the best you can ever adopt if you actually want to succeed in getting your ex back.
After the break up, your ex is normally angry and furious with you.
They will never be willing to have any thing whatsoever to do with you as a person.
This will go a long way in hampering the success that any move to contact them would have brought.
Any attempt you make to contact them will fall on deaf ear.
They will be very unwilling to even hear you speak to them because of the anger and fury they are still having towards you.
By giving your ex some space after the break up, you will allow them to get over the initial fury and pain that the break up would have implanted into them.
Time will go a long way in helping them to overcome the initial pain, hence the possibility of them losing their pains and anger towards you.
During this period also, your ex will be able to appreciate what it means to be separated from you.
By contacting them immediately after the break up, you will not be giving them the opportunity to do that.
Your ex will be able to take some times to feel your absence and if the two of you had been able to have swell time together while the relationship lasted, they will not like the idea of not having you around them.
You can bet it with me that the paramount thought on their mind will be how to get back to you.
When they come, you should realize that, they have been able to overcome the anger and they are fully ready to have you back.
I suggest you don't keep them waiting for too long before accepting them back.