Breaking up with someone especially if you are the one getting dumped is tough.
I'm sure you already know that.
It is totally understandable to go through a whole range of emotions during this time: denial, sorrow, frustration and anger.
It is particularly tough if you've had a strong bond with the person or were in a long-term relationship.
But now you have a decision to make.
* You will continue wallowing in pain for the foreseeable future.
You will start contacting your ex, leaving voicemail messages, sending e-mails and text messages pleading for them to take you back.
If you intend on getting your ex back while you are in such an emotional state, don't bother.
All you will do is push them further away from you.
They will get the impression that you are weak and immature, and not worthy of their attention.
* You will pull yourself together and start thinking rationally about how to rekindle your relationship once more.
This means preparing a solid plan of action and outlining a clear strategy that you will follow.
However, the problem is that you are aware you need to have a plan but you just don't know what that plan should be.
What exact steps should you follow? When and how should you put them into action? What sequence should they follow? This is the reason why so many people fail in their attempt to get back together with their ex.
If you are in the same situation, it's not your fault.
Once you understand how your ex's mind works, getting them back will be easy.
There are plenty of strategies you can use to get your ex back but only a few have been proven to work on a consistent basis.
The trick is finding them instead of relying on trial and error.