Don"t Wait To Get Over Someone Quickly
When the relationship ends and you're not the one who ended it, then it can feel like you are drowning in quicksand, with the pain and suffering of impending doom eating away at you.
Such hopelessness will never be easy to get over with.
If you've been with your love interest for a very long time then it becomes even more difficult to deal with the pain.
It might be fairly easy to get over a relationship that has lasted 3 months but if you have been with someone for 3 years, then it is not so easy.
Luckily, there are a few things you can do to speed up the emotional recovery process.
While there are many ways to get over someone, I found method this to be one of the best ways to do it.
When you want to get over someone, start by removing or hiding some of the things that remind you of them.
Clocks, watches, Nerf balls, certain electronics are all fair game.
If you've bought a dog, cat, or fish together, you may not want to get rid of them as they are living beings.
But objects like picture frames or books that were given to you as a gift from your now ex love interest should be placed in hiding or thrown away.
If everything you own or have or nearly everything you have reminds you of your ex, try to focus on just getting rid of the most potent memory reminders of your ex.
After all, you don't want to completely strip your home of everything.
You do not want your living space to be empty! Another good way to get over someone is to start dating again.
Do bear in mind that you are very likely to enter a rebound relationship so it is a good idea to make it clear that you are just casually dating for fun and that you are not ready for anything serious right now.
This will be fair to you and to the other person you are now dating, as you will not be raising their expectations with false hope.
Once you spent some time for yourself and given yourself plenty of emotional space, you are ready to do one of two things.
Either move on, or consider contact with your ex again.
As long as you seem improved or at least different from before, in an honest way of course, you may choose to stay friends or try to win them back.
Such hopelessness will never be easy to get over with.
If you've been with your love interest for a very long time then it becomes even more difficult to deal with the pain.
It might be fairly easy to get over a relationship that has lasted 3 months but if you have been with someone for 3 years, then it is not so easy.
Luckily, there are a few things you can do to speed up the emotional recovery process.
While there are many ways to get over someone, I found method this to be one of the best ways to do it.
When you want to get over someone, start by removing or hiding some of the things that remind you of them.
Clocks, watches, Nerf balls, certain electronics are all fair game.
If you've bought a dog, cat, or fish together, you may not want to get rid of them as they are living beings.
But objects like picture frames or books that were given to you as a gift from your now ex love interest should be placed in hiding or thrown away.
If everything you own or have or nearly everything you have reminds you of your ex, try to focus on just getting rid of the most potent memory reminders of your ex.
After all, you don't want to completely strip your home of everything.
You do not want your living space to be empty! Another good way to get over someone is to start dating again.
Do bear in mind that you are very likely to enter a rebound relationship so it is a good idea to make it clear that you are just casually dating for fun and that you are not ready for anything serious right now.
This will be fair to you and to the other person you are now dating, as you will not be raising their expectations with false hope.
Once you spent some time for yourself and given yourself plenty of emotional space, you are ready to do one of two things.
Either move on, or consider contact with your ex again.
As long as you seem improved or at least different from before, in an honest way of course, you may choose to stay friends or try to win them back.
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