Even though you just broke up with your boyfriend or he broke up with you, you may be feeling as though you need him in your life and cannot move on without him.
This is a typical feeling after any breakup and can be hard to accept when your boyfriend wants nothing to do with you.
They won't talk to you or even look your way when you see them out in public.
Breaking up is very hard and many people just are confused and have no idea what to do next in their lives.
First of all, you should stop thinking about your ex as something you can't live without and start thinking about him as a goal to reach.
You have set goals all your life, some goals are about weight, others are about a career.
So set a goal about your love life as well.
Make him that level you can't wait to complete and do not except no for an answer.
Sure there will be obstacles and there will be collisions along the way.
What goal is easy to reach? Start by leaving him alone.
Don't call, text, email or bug your friends to spy on him.
As hard as it may be just simply leave him alone.
Go out and hang with some friends, go get your hair done, go shopping or even go to a spa.
These are all ways to help your self-esteem so that way when he does start talking to you again you feel better.
Next, after you have given him some time to cool off.
Start making mild appearances in the places that know he will be.
One day of the week show up at his favorite club or even his favorite spot to eat.
He'll notice you, don't worry so don't even look his way.
After a week has gone by, make another appearance.
Pretend like your life is great and you couldn't be any happier than you are right now.
Once he starts to see how happy you are, he will start to wonder why.
This curiosity will lead him to you.
Don't make yourself so available to him though, make it seem like he has to work to get you back and soon enough that is exactly what he will be doing.