Learning how to pleasure a woman is a solid foundation for your relationship because a couple with a healthy sex life has more chance of staying together.
It also banishes any thoughts of being unfaithful because she will be getting what she wants from you.
To pleasure a woman properly and give her the orgasms that she has dreamed of receiving you need to be well versed at giving her cunnilingus.
While penetration may give her some small but very infrequent orgasms cunnilingus will give her super power packed climaxes every time that you lick her.
To give oral sex successfully you need to remember that the clitoris alone has over 8,000 separate nerve endings, so just imagine how many of theses tiny pleasure points the vagina is home to.
This means that aimless and random licking just won't be enough.
You have to realize that if you simply go down down on a woman and start cunnilingus that there is a very high chance of her moving away because of the sensitivity down there.
To counter this you will have to get her sufficiently aroused before any actual licking of her vagina.
Do this with foreplay but only think of her pleasure because if you are trying to get something out of it then this will not get her to the arousal levels that are required.
The next step to pleasure a woman is to give her well timed and well performed cunnilingus.
The golden rule is to be firm with your licks but keep your foot off the gas because to much speed will put her off.
That's how to pleasure a woman with oral sex which is by the way proven to give more women more orgasms than penetration.