How to Find the Perfect Match
We want to find someone who can be our soul mate and our true love.
Is there such a thing as a match made in heaven? Who is a perfect match to us? Is it someone who shares our interest in Shakespeare, someone who loves pizza as much as us? Or is finding the perfect match about how "opposites attract"? I'm sure that you already have some sort of criteria is your mind right now.
You might be thinking, "well he needs to have a good personality.
" Well, did you know that most of your personality was already developed by the time you turned 5? Who you are today has a lot to do with your birth order.
Whether you were born first, last, in the middle or an only child, your birth order personality is a good starting point to find your perfect match.
Generally, the rule is not to be with someone who is the same birth order as you.
Your personalities will be very similar, and problems can arise.
For example, if you are both firstborn, you will most likely have issues over who gets to be in control in the relationship, and fights may originate from little details such as how to roll up a tube of toothpaste.
To find the perfect match, one has to look beyond and be with somebody of a different birth order.
The good news for all last born is that you are the perfect match for all the birth orders, except with someone who is also the youngest child! Middle child personalities are also one of the best to be with.
They avoid conflict and prefer to make peace and compromise.
Who you were as a child not only influences your birth order personality, but also affects how you are likely to view the opposite sex, and the type of person you are most likely to be a perfect match with.
If you are a female, how you saw your father while growing up is going to influence the way you look at men, which will also decide the type of man you are going to marry.
How you saw your siblings, especially if you have a sibling of the opposite sex, will also determine your success in finding the perfect match for you.
Knowing your own personality and that of your partner's will help you create the perfect match, and bring you closer to a happily ever after!