He had annoying habits like most husbands, but in general the guy treated you pretty well.
You want him back, due to the fact everybody else on the market is just not appealing.
And now that he's gone, you realize it was a huge mistake letting him go.
You want your man back, but the puzzle of how to get him back is driving you crazy.
Here are a few ideas to consider:

1. Before you head down this path, you may need to cope with why you split-up in the first place.
   Were you to blame or was he to blame for the separation and divorce.
   Certainly, if he was the culprit, it must not have been that bad or you wouldn't wish him back again.
   
2. If you were the culprit, how easily will he let you off the hook? How close were you two before the breakdown in your marriage occurred? What were the good times you had in your relationship?
3. Has sufficient time passed that all the hurt from those angry days of the break-up can be forgiven? Time heals all wounds, but the question is how much time will be needed.
   
4. If you're able to regularly talk with each other, attempt to schedule a time and place to have a face-to-face discussion.
   Select a cozy place that reminds you both of the good times in the past.
   
5. What you can tell him is that, "Will you consider talking to me about an issue that's really essential and will have an impact on both you and me.
   We need to meet in person.
   "
6. If your ex-husband is OK with your request, you have a bit of a victory.
   If he was incredibly resentful over the breakup, he may well not agree to meet at all.
   
7. Pull together what you desire to tell him.
   Outline it as you would in preparing for an important sales pitch.
   
8. Be positive and list all the benefits of joining up together as a couple again.
   You could bring up possibly trying it out for some period of time, or just to have a date every now and then.
   If he was primarily to blame for the separation, forgive him fully.
   If your actions led to the split-up, apologize and ask him to forgive you.
   
9. Try not to beg, cry, or play on his sympathies.
   This just won't work.
   
10. If the discussion doesn't work, try to see if it is possible to get someone close to him to get involved.
    A minister is a good idea.
    
11. His family members can also be a probable source of help.
    

Do everything you can to make this work, so you'll know that if this didn't work, you were just not meant to be together - and you can move on with your life.