There is a deeper reason why you no longer have your man in your arms and you may have spent time trying to use reason or logic with him to find out why he's made the decision to end the relationship.
What I am about to tell you goes against everything you've been taught to believe about relationships.
You were told that when you love someone you should give, be attentive, spend time together, cherish, tell them how much you love them etc.
These are behaviors that take place within a relationship NOT outside of it.
You are no longer IN a relationship but you want to GET BACK IN a relationship with your man.
Notice that behaviors that take place inside a relationship are accepted and embraced by the person while you are IN a relationship but the minute you are dumped, these behaviors are taboo.
They are no longer accepted.
When you are dumped, you cannot act or say things that you would normally say in a relationship because now it is one sided.
These actions or feelings will not be returned.
The only way to get your feelings returned is to drive the attraction magnet through the roof.
You may pause for a minute here when you read the word "attraction" - it is because you don't understand that there are two types of attraction inside a relationship.
There is physical attraction and emotional attraction.
Men will dump women even when they are still physically attracted to them because what seals the deal is having a strong emotional attraction.
Reason and logic won't do when you are faced with a breakup.
What matters is the element of attraction that if re-ignited inside your ex will have him beg for your attention.