There you are.
At a party.
Or a bar.
You see this person across the room.
You are dying to meet them.
You would love to go out with them.
You would love to know that they feel the same way about you as you feel about them.
You wander over.
You might be thinking "I hope they like me," as you nervously start a conversation.
They look at you.
 Did you interrupt them? Are you bothering them? Are they as nervous as you are? You mumble a few words.
They say something to the effect that it was nice meeting you, you turn, and walk away in shame.
Has this ever happened to you? It doesn't have to.
There is a better way.
An easier way.
And because you are reading this article right here, right now, you are going to learn how.
And because you are smart enough to be able to use your imagination, you will use this technique not only to become more successful with the opposite sex, but to become more attractive than you ever thought possible.
And the best part about this is that it has nothing to do with looks.
 You read that correctly.
Attraction to the opposite sex, whether you are male or female, has nothing to do with looks.
 The reason our society seems to be so preoccupied with looks, is that most people spend way too much time worrying about how they look, rather than how they act.
 So naturally most people only have their looks, and nothing else.
But you are different.
 You are smart.
Because you have come to this site, and scrolled through the different articles, you have demonstrated a capacity that most people don't.
You are dedicated to improving yourself from the inside out.
You have a decided advantage over most others.
This by far one of the most popular topics I write about on my blog.
Many people say these techniques, and many others, have helped them tremendously.
So what's the technique? Simple.
We like others who like us, and who don't radiate any need for any kind of reciprocity.
What does that mean? Let's break it down.
 Imagine two scenarios.
 First scenario.
 You are at a party.
Somebody approaches you.
 They seem to like you, but they also seem to have a sense of neediness, or desperateness.
It's almost as if you get the feeling that their whole world will shatter if you don't like them back.
 That attitude in itself causes you to want to get away from them.
They like you, but they need you to like them back.
  Second scenario.
You are at the same party.
Somebody approaches you.
Gives you an honest compliment.
One that tells you that they see something unique about you.
And you get a strong feeling that it doesn't really matter to them if you like them back or not.
You get the idea that they only wanted to give you a compliment, or talk to you a little bit just to see what's up.
They seem confident and relaxed and not concerned if you even ever see each other again.
The first secret is to let others know you appreciate them.
Appreciate something other than they are attractive.
The clothes they've chosen.
The way they helped somebody.
Something they did.
A choice they've made.
The second secret is to let them know, through your actions, that you don't need their approval or their appreciation of you, because you appreciate yourself enough.
 Not that theirs wouldn't feel great and fantastic and wonderful, but you don't need it.
  The best way to practice developing this attitude is give random compliments to strangers.
  Something unique about something they are wearing, or the way they behaved with another person.
Walk right up, and say "Excuse me, but I wanted to let you know that I like the way you..
...
" and fill in the blanks.
Then when you are finished, simply say "..
..
I just wanted to let you know that.
" And then turn and leave.
If they offer their name, or ask for yours, great.
  But don't ask unless they do first.
Don't continue the conversation unless they press it.
What you are doing is building up your "attraction aura.
" After a few days of doing this, you'll walk different, talk different and radiate an aura of charisma that will change your outlook on life forever.
Or at least until you hook up with that special someone for a lifetime of happiness.