The essence of Christianity is to lead us towards the path of light, to follow Jesus Christ as we respect the commandments of God in our journey along the path of life.
Relationships should never take the first priority in our life as Christian singles and should be just one of way of living the kind of life that God wants us to live.
A relationship should never dissuade you from the path of light, or make you forget about God and his love for us all at any one time.
Many young people and even divorced Christian singles have taken the wrong turn concerning relationships, as some depict that they value relationships than the work of God.
When a Christian single person compromises his belief of God for marriage or relationship, it is one of the signs that they were not there in the first instance to serve God.
It is painful what most of us have to go through to have a companion, and it leaves most church leaders bewildered.
The fact is that relationships have taken the center stage in our life rather than the need for a fruitful Christian life.
Christian singles are falling into the hands of temptations as the devil would like it, as they fail to make their relationship issues as righteous as they should be.
There has been a rising notion among Christian singles that any relationship is good, if you love each other.
This has made many of them to start relationships with nonbelievers, which has been the beginning of losing the light of Christ.
It means that you have concluded that it is impossible to meet the right person in the Christianity realm, and it is the reason as to why you go for a person who does not know Christ.
Once you have compromised yourself in this manner it then is absolutely impossible to convince non-believers to commit their lives to Christ before they are married or they have found the right person.
Many parents have been known to convince their Christian single mature children to look for a relationship on the other side, due to issues to do with age.
They become impatient with their believing children and want them to marry fast with little care whether it is in a Christian way or a secular manner; to them, any relationship will do.
The church is something that those Christian singles who have decided to start relationships with non-believers ignore.
They disregard the fact that the church offers them the right place to begin relationships that not only reflect righteousness, but the true face and love of God.
Impatient is what makes many people go for anybody, whether a drunkard, fornicator or a church minister.
They don't care.
The church offers one the chance to have counseling sessions, as well as activities that are meant to bring single men and women together.
The church leaders know that there is a need for their Christian singles to marry within the precincts of the church and they open all avenues for them to meet.
The decision to go for that person outside the church is not a failure of the church but lack of belief in it.