Problems can creep up in any marriage at anytime. This especially happens to newly weds, who often ask what happened to the relationship. Marriage problems occur because we are to naïve and believe that the relationship will stay the same as it was even before you got married. This is why before you do get married you should go for counseling classes which is where you will see each others true colors and get to know if you are prepared to get married or not.

Complex marriage problems should only be solved by professional healers, such as marriage therapist or counselors. Handling these problems should be done delicately otherwise you might end up ruining a relationship that could have worked out or hand a chance.  

If the marriage problems are because one of the spouses or even both have been unfaithful, I hardly doubt it will work out. There are however been some marriages where the couples have made up and reconciled their differences. This is very rare and they probably have some kind of understanding and not everyone is that lucky.

Abusive marriages are the hardest to mend and it is usually better that the couple end up apart from each other rather than sticking in a marriage they do not want to be in. The major problems in marriages are actually caused due the fact there is no form of communication and understanding between the two people that are joined together in holy matrimony. The only way to get over these problems would be counseling and getting the right advice. Meditation is also a key factor that can help all who are involved.