The Female Orgasm, Let Her Show You How It"s Done
Just for a minute, let's take a look back in time, to some things you couldn't do when you were you younger.
When you first learnt how to ride a bike, someone had to show you how it was done, and you had to practise to get better, and you did.
When you started your first job, your boss will have taught you what to do, and again you would have kept practicing, doing it regularly and getting better until you could do it with your eyes closed.
It's very much like that with the female orgasm, until you know EXACTLY how its done you can't possibly get it right every time.
The problem with sex is that it is as natural to us all as the world itself, but that doesn't mean that being good at it comes naturally, there is no inbuilt mechanism within a man that means he knows what to do to bring a woman to orgasm.
So that brings us back to the beginning again, to learn how to do something we need to be shown and the good news is there is something extremely erotic about watching and learning about what your partner really enjoys, but more importantly what brings her to an orgasm.
It is essential that you both feel comfortable with the idea of her masturbating in front of you.
Bear in mind that the only time she will have done this, if at all, will have been in private.
For a man, self masturbation is just an accepted part of growing up, for a woman there is often a stigma attached to it, so it may not come easily to her.
As with all sex matters, it helps to discuss what you will do in advance, plan an evening of it, she may just find the thought of doing it for you incredibly stimulating, even more so if there is a build up and anticipation to it.
Don't forget, whilst this experience will probably turn you on past your wildest dreams, this is meant to be a learning experience for you, so pay attention, and ask questions.
Watch to see how fast or slow she goes, where does she put her fingers and how does her body move when really aroused.
You'll learn 2 things whilst watching her masturbate, firstly how to give a female orgasm, but secondly exactly how she acts when having a full bona fide orgasm, how her body writhes around, the noises she makes and how quickly she likes to stimulate herself when about to orgasm.
When she's done if you're lucky you might have your turn.
When the night is over, take the time to question her further, ask for hints and tips you can use on her yourself.
The next time you make love, put your new found knowledge to good use, and don't forget, make her female orgasm the goal of your lovemaking, you will become a sex god in her eyes, and if you want to have more sex, then being good at it is one of the easiest ways to make that happen.
When you first learnt how to ride a bike, someone had to show you how it was done, and you had to practise to get better, and you did.
When you started your first job, your boss will have taught you what to do, and again you would have kept practicing, doing it regularly and getting better until you could do it with your eyes closed.
It's very much like that with the female orgasm, until you know EXACTLY how its done you can't possibly get it right every time.
The problem with sex is that it is as natural to us all as the world itself, but that doesn't mean that being good at it comes naturally, there is no inbuilt mechanism within a man that means he knows what to do to bring a woman to orgasm.
So that brings us back to the beginning again, to learn how to do something we need to be shown and the good news is there is something extremely erotic about watching and learning about what your partner really enjoys, but more importantly what brings her to an orgasm.
It is essential that you both feel comfortable with the idea of her masturbating in front of you.
Bear in mind that the only time she will have done this, if at all, will have been in private.
For a man, self masturbation is just an accepted part of growing up, for a woman there is often a stigma attached to it, so it may not come easily to her.
As with all sex matters, it helps to discuss what you will do in advance, plan an evening of it, she may just find the thought of doing it for you incredibly stimulating, even more so if there is a build up and anticipation to it.
Don't forget, whilst this experience will probably turn you on past your wildest dreams, this is meant to be a learning experience for you, so pay attention, and ask questions.
Watch to see how fast or slow she goes, where does she put her fingers and how does her body move when really aroused.
You'll learn 2 things whilst watching her masturbate, firstly how to give a female orgasm, but secondly exactly how she acts when having a full bona fide orgasm, how her body writhes around, the noises she makes and how quickly she likes to stimulate herself when about to orgasm.
When she's done if you're lucky you might have your turn.
When the night is over, take the time to question her further, ask for hints and tips you can use on her yourself.
The next time you make love, put your new found knowledge to good use, and don't forget, make her female orgasm the goal of your lovemaking, you will become a sex god in her eyes, and if you want to have more sex, then being good at it is one of the easiest ways to make that happen.
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