The breakup of an intimate bond between two loving people creates crisis in their lives, grief, emotional pain, depression and even anger are normal, healthy responses to this overwhelming loss of your loved one.
You want your ex back in your arms, however you feel lost and do not know what to do even though you feel the urge to do something.
Your ex might have the same feelings you are having right now.
Although you might be tempted to dull the pain of losing someone you love with alcohol, avoid it by any means, since alcohol is a depressant, it will not help ease you pain but will do quite opposite, depress you further.
Stay positive no matter what, positive state of mind will get you a long way.
Pull yourself together and find strength you may not even think you have.
Being separated from your ex does not mean at all that your relationship is over.
If you have strong feelings for your ex and refuse to give up on your relationship, there are things you can do that will help you in getting your ex back in your arms.
You will discover how to react after a break up, so that you do not strain the relationship even further, then getting your ex back will be easier than you thought.
Be confident and let everybody, including your ex to see that you are doing well.
Being single, now you can do things that you have enjoyed doing before you got involved in your relationship.
Take a breath of fresh air, life is good and there is nothing that can make you sad.
Be yourself there is nothing more honest about you than being who you are.
This what attracted your ex to you in the first place, back then when you went out together.
But along the way in your relationship you have changed.
Spark the interest to your personality in your ex.
Stay socially active in your daily life.
Go out meet other people, see your old friends that you forgot, when it was the last time you have talked to and spend time with them.
A serious relationship takes time and energy, and does not leave much time for anything else.
Profit from this time being alone, it is perfect opportunity to clear up your mind of all the negative thoughts.
Getting popular among friends will attract the attention of your ex and will make him/her want to be around you again.
This is the best way to let your ex see you in a new light.
Look after yourself, appearance reflect your situation, like the old saying what you see is what you get.
Join the gym or other physical activity club get yourself in the best shape possible.
What a better activity to forget about all your problems to get healthier and to achieve healthy body, mind, sole and spirit.
Make the breakup a reason to improve and change yourself to be a better person, but do not just pretend so you can get your ex back, It may later on backfire on you.