Everyone knows that directly after a breakup with your ex can be a fully traumatizing and confusing time.
You can't think straight, can't eat, do not want to do anything fun, crying yourself out of tears and many other things.
The trick is to either get over or through this period as quickly as possible or put it aside.
Now I fully well know that a few of us cannot just simply put it aside.
For some of us it it is like riding an emotional hurricane that we are tied to until it has run it course.
There is no coming off somewhere along the journey, there is no pause no slowing down.
There is only hold on for your life and hope to survive the total upheaval of your life.
Ok, so after all of that's been said you may be thinking..
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What in the hell is the 1 surefire way to get your ex back...
well its this..
Man UP! What the hell does this mean? It means: a) Suck it up How long exactly are you going to be a sniveling sack of bones? Curled up in a fetal position as if you are being attacked b a yard full of bullies.
Suck it up! Bear the pain! b) Be a man about it You know damn well that you were either partly or fully responsible for the breakup.
What? Are you still denying it? Good god man...
isn't it about time that you be a man about it? c) Face the music Did you really think that your actions had no consequences?...
Wow you are foolish.
Stand and take the brunt of her anger, shame, disappointment or hate.
d) Do not flinch When she starts shooting words a you to incite some form of obvious physical discomfort, stand firm, strong, and ready to have them bounce off your chest.