You may know someone who entices you to the point you can't get enough of them.
You feel completely connected to this person on a deep level, without even being close to them.
When you get around him/her you feel a since of comfort and the ability to trust them with practically anything they have.
You want nothing more than to be in their presence all day, every day.
You cant even pinpoint what the person did to make you feel that way.
As you look around, you notice that other people feel the same way about this person; but why? Some people just have sensuality oozing from every inch of their body.
While others do everything they can to have the same magnetism, but nothing seems to work.
It makes you wonder what their secret is, doesn't it? Here's the difference in people who are magnetic and people who are not.

1. They live in the present.
   When they talk with someone their every being is focused on that person.
   They are not worried with comparing themselves to other people.
   They just focus on being their selves.
   
2. Some of hide our sexuality.
   We don't let it out.
   We restrain ourselves form fully expressing our emotions and who we really are.
   Hide ourselves through layers of clothes, so our sexuality is not exposed.
   
3. We hold barriers up and don't allow others to enter our lives.
   We hold a wall up between ourselves and others that tend to push people back.
   We are seen as standoffish and repel others from wanting to get close to us.
   Most of this is due to fear of allowing ourselves to be open to others and getting hurt.
   
4. We are selective in who we associate with.
   When we go to a social gathering, we immediately look for people to talk to who look, talk, act and have the same interests as us.
   It's a fact that people of like minds attract each other, but you'll notice that successful people are more open to associating with anyone.
   
5. Some people are just not authentic.
   You can tell they are fake and try to be something they are not.
   Acting this way inhibits anyone from trusting you.
   

To become a person who has total sexual magnetism, you have to let the real you out.
Learn to use your sexuality without being trashy.
Lastly, be yourself and open to talking to anyone in a way that shows them they are the only person in the room.