Face Up To Your Past Mistakes If You Want Your Ex Back
If really the case that the relationship fell apart because of your wrongdoings, then it is only right that you own up to your mistakes. It is going to be hard on you but if it means so important to you to get your ex back, then you got to try undo them and make that apology.
Be ready to face up to your ex for your mistakes. As the saying goes, ‘do not cry over spilt milk’. Generally, people do make mistakes in their life, but the most important thing to realize is that it is what you do next.
Analyze your own faults and think what really went wrong, and what particular matters led to the break up. It is not the case here, of delving into your ex’s own mistakes. You start by looking at yourself in the mirror, and concern yourself with what you can influence.
Do not despair, there is always hope that your past mistakes can be forgiven and the relationship can recover from that situation.
Try to find out what exactly happened in your life moments prior to you making those mistakes.
Was it because you were under job stress or having family problems? Perhaps, you were physically strained yourself.
However, if your mistakes arose out of sheer thoughtlessness and selfishness, then it is something that you can work on to rectify on your character, if you are sincerely committed to win back your ex.
If you can come to terms with your past mistakes, then perhaps it is appropriate that you can arrange to meet up with your ex in public and on neutral ground, without both of you becoming emotional. Your objective here is to stay calm and focused in what you want to say. Make your apology and seek forgiveness and then listen attentively to what your ex has to say.
Remember, people do make mistakes in their lifetime, and there is always hope that the relationship can recover if both partners are sincerely committed to work things out to get back together again.
Be ready to face up to your ex for your mistakes. As the saying goes, ‘do not cry over spilt milk’. Generally, people do make mistakes in their life, but the most important thing to realize is that it is what you do next.
Analyze your own faults and think what really went wrong, and what particular matters led to the break up. It is not the case here, of delving into your ex’s own mistakes. You start by looking at yourself in the mirror, and concern yourself with what you can influence.
Do not despair, there is always hope that your past mistakes can be forgiven and the relationship can recover from that situation.
Try to find out what exactly happened in your life moments prior to you making those mistakes.
Was it because you were under job stress or having family problems? Perhaps, you were physically strained yourself.
However, if your mistakes arose out of sheer thoughtlessness and selfishness, then it is something that you can work on to rectify on your character, if you are sincerely committed to win back your ex.
If you can come to terms with your past mistakes, then perhaps it is appropriate that you can arrange to meet up with your ex in public and on neutral ground, without both of you becoming emotional. Your objective here is to stay calm and focused in what you want to say. Make your apology and seek forgiveness and then listen attentively to what your ex has to say.
Remember, people do make mistakes in their lifetime, and there is always hope that the relationship can recover if both partners are sincerely committed to work things out to get back together again.
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